Something interesting I found on a friend's blog that i can like totally relate to..
Love is a choice. You can't possibly fall in and out of love. When people say that they've fallen out of love, they are just saying that they have chosen not to love the other anymore. our lives are composed by our personal choices. and to every choice that we make, there is a cause, and an effect which will then lead to another cause. our lives should be in order because freedom is based on order. ( didn't understand this line, but yah, my life is definately nowhere near in order now )
In relationship, distance is not measured by miles, its measured by affection. when something goes wrong in a relationship, we withdraw our affection to the person. we stopped talking to each other. and the longer we stop talking to each other, the longer the issue drags. in the end, when we want to piece back the broken pieces, we don't even know where to start, because we forget what had caused the breakdown of that relationship.
The first and second paragraphs are talking about two different things in my life.. So you can imagine how shocked i was to come across both of them on the same blog. But well, hope things goes back to normal..
